It’s hard to define what a friend is, but my definition is someone you can call for help at 3 am and they’ll take your call and help no matter what. There are o

It’s hard to define what a friend is, but my definition is someone you can call for help at 3 am and they’ll take your call and help no matter what. There are only a few people in my life that fit that definition, and I consider most of the others acquaintances. But your definition means that you haven’t yet discovered what real friendship is. To make real friends you have to be a real friend (and also go through a lot of people who don’t feel that way), but it’s been one of the defining experiences of my life and well worth the effort and investment and heartache.