I quit after I had kids and fucked up a couple of times getting inappropriately drunk and not being functional the next day. I didn't drink often but when I did

I quit after I had kids and fucked up a couple of times getting inappropriately drunk and not being functional the next day. I didn't drink often but when I did it was a problem. I can now have a tipple when I'm away from the family. As long as I really restrict it to 1 or 2 drinks.