> I'm not in charge here. But you were. The real leader is rarely the officially designated and credentialed individual, but the one prepared to step up and as

> I'm not in charge here. But you were. The real leader is rarely the officially designated and credentialed individual, but the one prepared to step up and assume command. I never find it gets tedious being the "adult" in the room, but sometimes it does wear on me that so little organic leadership arises in these situations. I have to beast people into taking a lead. People are afraid. Rick Roderick said it best; "People aren't afraid of death any longer. They're afraid of being seen wearing the wrong trainers. Social media did this to us. Being unpopular = social death, and the average inhabitant of the idiocracy fears that more than seeing children getting their arms ripped off by 300W motors than speaking up. It's sad.