By imagining that someone else with my means and experiences would be able to do better at what I am doing compared to myself doing it by me not perceiving or d

By imagining that someone else with my means and experiences would be able to do better at what I am doing compared to myself doing it by me not perceiving or deciding to do things as they ought to be done. A lot of times, it's not true and even if it was, it's irrelevant. In these circumstances, I think I try to use stress to motivate myself to do better, when the opposite turn out a lot better by staying more grounded in reality and responding to that more effectively.