I've encountered the term 'spade' in the fetish community in reference to interracial cuckolding fantasies. Maybe that's it. Or maybe it's that it's homophonou

I've encountered the term 'spade' in the fetish community in reference to interracial cuckolding fantasies. Maybe that's it. Or maybe it's that it's homophonous with 'spayed', language resists easy categorization.