where did the idea come from that you missed the prime years of life? What facts support that? I am in my 40s and it is the best time of my life so far. It sou

where did the idea come from that you missed the prime years of life? What facts support that? I am in my 40s and it is the best time of my life so far. It sounds like you have some definition of what life should be and your life isn’t meeting your own expectations and yet you alone are defining the expectations and deficiencies. How about accepting that you are perfect and your life is perfect how it is? Then if you want to add something more you can but not from a base feeling of unworthiness and disappointment. There are tons of people that aren’t married and have no house or kids and love life. But that’s because they define that as the good life. There are tons of people that are married with a house and kids and are miserable and wish they were single and un-encumbered. Only you get to set the definition of the good life. Start by seeing what you have that is working. You probably have health, intelligence, ext. celebrate that. Get to a place of gratitude not unfulfilled expectations.