43 isn’t that old. Had my last kid when I was 41 and that was by design. The fact that you have and MS and savings means you are, by those kinds of measures, be

43 isn’t that old. Had my last kid when I was 41 and that was by design. The fact that you have and MS and savings means you are, by those kinds of measures, better off than most of the population. Don’t feel rushed - that will make you feel out of control. Realize that you have time to make decisions about what to do next, and prove it to yourself by stepping back and taking that time. Good luck.