Pick one thing to work on, and start there. I recommend a job, because if family is something you want, it will be easier being gainfully employed. Simultaneo

Pick one thing to work on, and start there. I recommend a job, because if family is something you want, it will be easier being gainfully employed. Simultaneously, you should consider mental health help to deal with the narrative in your head, as that self-talk is going to make it harder to “turn your life around.”