It's longer than I care to really write, but I think this comment (not be myself) gets to the essence of my experience as well https://news.ycombinator.com/ite

It's longer than I care to really write, but I think this comment (not be myself) gets to the essence of my experience as well https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34044230 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34044230 and an anecdote I don't care to rewrite https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34047842 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34047842