I've been around all this time -- in fact, I work from home while my wife goes out to work -- but that doesn't change the fact that I'm the mean parent who does

I've been around all this time -- in fact, I work from home while my wife goes out to work -- but that doesn't change the fact that I'm the mean parent who doesn't give her milk. I think the big change a few weeks ago was her finally understanding that Daddy is something other than "Mommy who doesn't have milk".