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I think you're right about this. Regarding people not calling you to hang out though, I do think once you achieve a certain critical mass of relationship buildi

by SCUSKU 4y ago

I think you're right about this. Regarding people not calling you to hang out though, I do think once you achieve a certain critical mass of relationship building (usually within a group setting) you will end up getting reciprocal invitations. But like you said, you have to put in the work first before you get to reap those rewards.

mach1ne 4y ago
That's also about how much you give to others. I find that if I am at my 'normal' energy level I receive few reciprocal invitations. But if I deliberately give off 'high-energy' it's like people have found a button which they can press to have fun, and I receive nothing but invitations. The thing is, it's generally not fun for me to be high-energy.