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> > I suspect part of the appeal is having power over another living being I don't know why people always repeat this ad nauseaum. It's simply untrue. It's all
by JumpinJack_Cash 4y ago
> > I suspect part of the appeal is having power over another living being
I don't know why people always repeat this ad nauseaum. It's simply untrue. It's all about the convenience.
Men know what they want, specifically they want to maximize the time spent naked in bed with a woman who they consider attractive. Period. All the other activities are a drag and something they do in order to get to the promised land.
No straight man has ever gone to a club, nightclub, disco for the sheer pleasure of going there, men go thre essentially because women congregate in these establishments for one reason or another. Those places are some sort of socio-sexual casinos where men go to find somebody to spend the night with.
A percentage of the male population is deciding for whatever reason that they want to skip the hassle of the socio-sexual casino, the hassle getting there, the hassle of having to park, the hassle of having to dress for whatever theme the night is about, the to have ears assaulted by loud music, the hassle to approach women, the hassle to spend a fortune in drinks and defend themselves from cockblockers...
In short they want to embrace the convenience and skip directly to the good part, the part they really want to maximize: spending the night naked in bed with a woman they consider attractive.
And visiting an escort doesn't have to be all about sex, matter of fact many sex workers on various podcasts have confirmed that the time spent having sex per booking is decreasing, while there has been a rise in time spent just talking, kissing and cuddling, and also the avg. time booked per session has been rising, mostly because men have more money to spend on escorts if they avoid spending money on stuff they hate doing such as going to clubs, shopping, eating out etc.
It's easy to speculate that once men completely embrace the convenience of escorts the rate of marriage and pair bonding will drop like a rock. Men will work to get money during the day , and at night they will have a roster of escort they'd visit who are a good fit as far as looks and personality. Similarly the escorts will have a roster of clients who they deem respectful and who are not stingy.
And so finally all the window dressing and BS activities such as going to clubs or resturants or furniture shopping can be finally put to rest once and for all.
I for one welcome the age of compensated Netflix and chill.