> I did all the DKIM crap and gmail says it's good, but it still ends up in spam. I've convinced myself that google actively works agains smaller email provide

> I did all the DKIM crap and gmail says it's good, but it still ends up in spam. I've convinced myself that google actively works agains smaller email providers, and I'm 100% sure their end-game is to push as many people as possible (either business or private) to gmail (ideally). Otherwise they'd act different: - Microsoft offers you a manual way to verify your domain and have it whitelisted, in case your mail gets flagged - Facebook explicitly says why it's rejecting your mail (a link in the SMTP reply iirc)