Seconding this, the same thing happened to me. See https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34022113 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34022113 for a take that I

Seconding this, the same thing happened to me. See https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34022113 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34022113 for a take that I like better. Currently have a strained at best relationship with much of my family for reasons strongly related to this mindset. E: Moved the last paragraph of this comment to https://news.ycombinator.com/edit?id=34022364 https://news.ycombinator.com/edit?id=34022364 where it makes more sense in context.