A house(30 years of labor in the current market where I live with my current salary) in a location where jobs are available (so, close to a city). It is differ

A house(30 years of labor in the current market where I live with my current salary) in a location where jobs are available (so, close to a city). It is different with my peers because with some of them, at some point or other in life we were at the same level, which is why when I think about how much they've been able to further themselves in life compared to me, makes me have thise depressive thoughts. I will reach out to mentors, that's a very good point. I relate to a lot of things you've mentioned, thank you.