I wont comment about racial slurs, but I agree wholeheartedly with regard to abrasive language when it's not directed at anyone. If your computer crashes and y

I wont comment about racial slurs, but I agree wholeheartedly with regard to abrasive language when it's not directed at anyone. If your computer crashes and you mutter "for fucks sake" to yourself, you're not hurting anyone. Anyone who gets upset over your language in this situation is just being 19th century. The degree to which saying something such as "fuck you" is abrasive depends entirely on the situation - sometimes they probably deserve it, sometimes you would be being a dick.