Why do people who disagree with you have to be 'indoctrinated', 'clouded', or ruled by some 'narrative'? Maybe other people can just look at what Elon does and

Why do people who disagree with you have to be 'indoctrinated', 'clouded', or ruled by some 'narrative'? Maybe other people can just look at what Elon does and says, and come to the personal opinion that he's an asshole. It's not something that can ever be objectively true or false anyway, don't act like we're out here denying some set of facts or evidence to fit with our beliefs. I'm literally watching him do and say things, that in my personal opinion, firmly set him in the 'asshole' camp.