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What a weird comment. They are excited that someone who needs treatment has decided to get it; not that she needs treatment in the first place. Recovery from m
by astura 4y ago
What a weird comment.
They are excited that someone who needs treatment has decided to get it; not that she needs treatment in the first place. Recovery from mental health problems is extremely difficult, but it's more difficult when you don't seek any treatment or take any steps to feel better. It also reminds someone who is feeling sad and alone that she has friends who deeply care about her and her emotions.
You'll see the same reaction when someone says "I've decided to quit drinking/smoking/gambling/etc" even if they aren't seeking outside help. The friends are happy and excited to see a friend improving their life, not excited or happy that their friend has an addiction in the first place.
The reaction you saw in the cancer situation would be the same if everyone knew the friend had cancer but refused to get treatment for it then announced they were finally seeking medical treatment.
- subjectsigma 4y agoCommunicating the emotions of the room over the Internet is hard. Don't tell me how to interpret what I saw and felt. And it absolutely felt like this person was treating her mental illness as an exclusive club membership instead of a tragedy.
- astura 4y agoExcuse me? Reread the post your commenting on, I said absolutely nothing about the person seeking therapy, I was solely was talking about other's reactions to the person.