In my experience, these are a significant aspect, but not at all the whole thing. The biggest hurdle for me, is management's expectation that I be passably as

In my experience, these are a significant aspect, but not at all the whole thing. The biggest hurdle for me, is management's expectation that I be passably as competent at staying on top of multiple async communication threads, and being on time for things. Even if I say up front that "I will try and likely fail at following up with things that require me to check back in on things that may or may not have changed in a while, or remembering to respond to people." They eventually end up saying "I'm able to be in n meetings a week and manage k jira boards concurrently, surely you should be able to do x" Nope. DM me or tag me if something needs a new look.