"Self-censoring" over the response to your speech and thinking about the impact of what you say is called judgement. People do this all the time, based on conte

"Self-censoring" over the response to your speech and thinking about the impact of what you say is called judgement. People do this all the time, based on context, power dynamics, etiquette, etc. I have no power to "weaponize" this, but it's entirely reasonable to question the judgement of how someone uses their speech