Each partner sharing in household work is common sense, however details are up to them. Doing dishes in bulk every 2 days is an equally valid alternative to scr

Each partner sharing in household work is common sense, however details are up to them. Doing dishes in bulk every 2 days is an equally valid alternative to scrubbing one plate immediately after eating a snack. Also household chores including providing for the household, doing taxes, balancing checkbook, changing light bulbs, doing small repairs, changing oil in cars... Someone who doesn't equally share in every one of these chores may want to cut their partner some slack on others rather than leaning into 4th wave feminism.