Seriously? In developed countries much of housework is either neurotic and unnecessary (sweeping floors every day) or sign of extreme laziness or unhealthily lo

Seriously? In developed countries much of housework is either neurotic and unnecessary (sweeping floors every day) or sign of extreme laziness or unhealthily low energy (leaving dirty laundry around). Either case will be obviously correlated with people not finding themselves or each other sexy. If it's just practical issues, there are plenty of dishes one can just throw into oven or pressure cooker and eat from paper plates. Or if you are middle class, hire professional cleaners to come every other week. But these issues are rarely practical. Could be a husband who doesn't respect his wife's personal time. Or a wife who pours her general anxiety into unnecessary busy work and then nags husband to do the same. Either way, resolving underlying issues rather than focusing on particular chores is needed for enjoyable marriage.