> He still had the Spectrum in pristine condition in its original box last year when he died of cancer. I'd love to have it, but don't really want to ask my aun

> He still had the Spectrum in pristine condition in its original box last year when he died of cancer. I'd love to have it, but don't really want to ask my aunt and cousin for it. You could say something like "If you ever plan to get rid of it, please let me know first". You might find they offer it to you there and then, or worse offer it to you later on. And you won't feel like you're directly asking them for it on the spot.