I am not sure why I have simplified your task in my previous post. It seems you’ve agreed that pronouns exist to make me comfortable when you are speaking about

I am not sure why I have simplified your task in my previous post. It seems you’ve agreed that pronouns exist to make me comfortable when you are speaking about me. Actually they exist to provide you some linguistic comfort when speaking about me. But if you are willing to do some extra work to provide me some imaginary comfort that I do not actually need - who am to stop you? So, the actual table of my pronouns looks like this: И (who?) он Р (whose?) его, него Д (to whom?) ему, нему В (whom to blame?) его, него Т (by whom?) им, ним П (about whom?) нём There are 2 phonetical variants of some pronouns. In order to decide which one to use you should translate your sentence into Russian, check phonetical surroundings and use the proper phonetical variant of the proper grammar form of the pronoun. So: Give it to ему. But: Go to нему. If people will refuse to do this work of mental translation to Russian and back for my pleasure - do you think we should regulate it and enforce by law?