> We’ve conditioned ourselves into conformity because being opinionated is to be “an asshole”. Asshole is just a shorthand for "inconsiderate of others". Not

> We’ve conditioned ourselves into conformity because being opinionated is to be “an asshole”. Asshole is just a shorthand for "inconsiderate of others". Not everyone who is opinionated is an asshole, but some are. And some of those assholes even have valuable opinions, which we do consider, but still recognize them as being assholes.