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One anecdotal data point I can add here to support your last point - the most attractive woman I dated hit on me after witnessing me yell at another man and hav
by q1w2 4y ago
One anecdotal data point I can add here to support your last point - the most attractive woman I dated hit on me after witnessing me yell at another man and having that guy back down. It was somewhat in defense of her being put in an uncomfortable situation, and I was just naturally irritable and annoyed at the other guy. (I guess it was a little "white knighting" before that had a name).
It was a surreal and unexpected outcome that I didn't even know had occurred until days later. We were all friends and she was not at all into me, and then this incident occurred, and her attraction to me flipped on like a switch (her description) and she threw herself at me.
I think the drive for women to seek men who will protect them is part of the equation.
- davidguetta 4y agoYeah they want to witness confrontation and take the winner. Its actually a strategy ive absolutely used a few times, basically creating random bullshit drama and vaguely humiliate a third party male in order to raise attraction in a girl i was aiming for. Some people would say its bad but the more i live the more i think "its life and you cant change it" (and also that confrontation brings the best of people) so i think its fine on a the bigger picture. The danger is that also works both ways, some girls lose all attraction if their man lose at something in any way. I will always actively try to avoid crying in front of a girl I love (despite her thinking she wants that), and also actively avoid having my girl in a situation where she can see me lose somehow.