From my own player experience, I think the general observation is "interesting", and probably true for the choice long-term partners, but defnitely not for shor

From my own player experience, I think the general observation is "interesting", and probably true for the choice long-term partners, but defnitely not for short term sex where it's always the same guys that really are reaping all the spoils consistently.. People say that the 20% 'top guys' get 80% of women and it's just a statistics until you see how radical it is for real when a guy is consistently perceived as top 5% / 1% by women. Most people don't ever see it because in general you have 0 of these guys in your social circle and if so, girls just literally become someone else and are super stealthy in dealing with theses guys. But if you even become one of "these guys" (or be close enough to one) you see how violent reality really is.. Basically girls would do anything, break any rule to be with you. I was one of the top players when I was top of my game in my player time, but had a friend who was naturally off the chart on that scale.. He fucked literally every girl we met. I've seen multiple girls repeatedly asking for his number despite seeing him once. Multiple engaged girls ask their bf for open relationships just to fuck the guy. He had threesome all the times (when we weren't doing group parties) and all the girls knew each other and were fine with this while basically having bf on the side we were learning after. Physically he was my size so 5'11, not super muscular but doing combat sports, dark voice, very calm and a general charisma in addition of being very good at listening girls while staying mysterious. I had the same feeling of 'I'll never beat this guys, choose your battle wisely' that I had a few years ago while being in a competitive elite math course, and there was a guy who already who finished all the exams in 1 hour instead of 4 while being 19 and barely studying.. To be back to the more practical question, I believe women generally want consistently solid guys (mostly NOT WEAK) who can also make them feel good and accepted, so they are generally attracted by markers of strength, and generally qualities of being smooth / good listener and possibly vibe well with them. For marker of strength it can be physically, socially, financially or being simply conventionally attractive (tall, dark voice) but the strongest one is personality. that means basically not letting anyone walk on you, being confident and at the same time be super interested in what the girls have to say OR just simply vibing well with them. Fun fact contrary to common opinion, you actually get bonus points if you have massive selfish tendencies, narcicsic, or plain evil, precisely because at least you are not weak (the biggest horror they could think is to be with a weak guy and at least they hope you'll like them enough).