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Everyone wants to have kids. Everyone. But the whole fear of the future between paying for school loans, divorce rates, rising cost of living, exciting work env
by nashashmi 4y ago
Everyone wants to have kids. Everyone. But the whole fear of the future between paying for school loans, divorce rates, rising cost of living, exciting work environments, both couples working, thoughts of day care, and finally the lack of compromise in reducing your class of living is driving people bonkers where children and family are just no longer part of the equation.
- thehappypm 4y agoAbsolutely not. I know many people who absolutely hate the idea of having kids in their core.
- S_Bear 4y agoI never wanted kids. Hated being a child, my parents didn't want me, but were culturally pressured to do so (Dad: "Your mother got pregnant to try and trap me." Mom: "Having kids is just what you did back then."), and I got trapped as a bargaining chip in a toxic divorce situation. And I have a chronic pain issue since I was little and wouldn't want to pass that on to anyone. Got fixed in my early 20s with no regrets.