Let me ask you this, why do I have to get to know people? Because I certainly don't want people at work to get to know me and when forced I have to make stuff u

Let me ask you this, why do I have to get to know people? Because I certainly don't want people at work to get to know me and when forced I have to make stuff up basically. We are not a "family", family don't get to fire each other lol. Most of you on HN are programmers, so let me ask why you need to know about a persons life to code with them? In my experience even at work people go out of their way to avoid technical discussions. Many even refuse to do their job unless you become their best friend. I expect mangement to weed bullshitters like that out not encourage it by mandating forced bullshitting basically.