Maybe online platforms should just stick to how social interactions work in meatspace: You choose where and with whom you want to converse. If you're indoors,

Maybe online platforms should just stick to how social interactions work in meatspace: You choose where and with whom you want to converse. If you're indoors, you converse with your family/coworkers. If you're outdoors, you converse with friends or service providers + some public noise. Privately, people can talk about whatever they want. If someone starts bothering someone, the "host" of the place can ask them to leave, kick them out, or call the police. IRC almost figured it out like 900 years ago, but no then the centralized Hutts decided they want to control everything and "mOnEtIzE" all our interactions so now we have proprietary BS each trying to reinvent the damn wheel in its own broken half-baked way.