It is less about a packed calendar and more about being able to say yes to spontaneous invites. Friend, “Hey man, I’m at the coffee shop. Want to join me?” M

It is less about a packed calendar and more about being able to say yes to spontaneous invites. Friend, “Hey man, I’m at the coffee shop. Want to join me?” Me, “ya, sure. Be there in 15min.” No prep, and no money spent (well, maybe a train fare if you can’t walk or ride a bike).