I teach people how to protect themselves from emotional attacks. What I've seen is that most of us who attack others often believe we were attacked first. So I

I teach people how to protect themselves from emotional attacks. What I've seen is that most of us who attack others often believe we were attacked first. So I don't know if "bullies" necessarily think they've been bullied per say, however I feel quite confident they believe they feel attacked in some way (rejected, guilt tripped, ignored, blamed, etc). So with this in mind, I try to teach anyone to learn how to respond better to these attacks because I think we counterattack more than we may realize.