> Solution: Let 'em work it out themselves. Working-it-out is an effective approach for two people who want to solve an issue - an issue that they're both fair

> Solution: Let 'em work it out themselves. Working-it-out is an effective approach for two people who want to solve an issue - an issue that they're both fairly responsible for. But where you have one child experiencing long-term and unearned mistreatment at the hands of many peers - attempts at working-it-out are such a mismatched response that more mistreatment seems likely.