I think if you voice your concerns, your negative opinions, if you physically intervene against threats that makes you a less likeable person. If you go against

I think if you voice your concerns, your negative opinions, if you physically intervene against threats that makes you a less likeable person. If you go against someone else will, hit someone or intimidate someone then by definition you are being less liked by them. At the same time I think being likeable is not always a target you should aim for.