> If someone calls me an idiot in public, my hurt feelings are my problem Yeah no. People are responsible for the consequences of their actions. Being abusive

> If someone calls me an idiot in public, my hurt feelings are my problem Yeah no. People are responsible for the consequences of their actions. Being abusive to others does not liberate you from that. Sure, there are nuances (you're not necessarily solely responsible for consequences), but these nuance the stance, not remove your responsibility.