> I go out of my way to maintain the connection It could also be that the OP possesses traits which are notable and desirable to the right people. I've barely

> I go out of my way to maintain the connection It could also be that the OP possesses traits which are notable and desirable to the right people. I've barely exchanged a few sentences with someone before and they immediately stick out to me; not because they are attractive physically, but I notice something about their character that is desirable or rare.