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Excellent article, but don't make having close friends part of your main goal. Once you are comfortable with who you are, do things on your own, work on new hob
by sfusato 4y ago
Excellent article, but don't make having close friends part of your main goal. Once you are comfortable with who you are, do things on your own, work on new hobbies and interests, then you will attract the right people. Being confident and positive are a people magnet.
- s1artibartfast 4y agoI strongly disagree, or at least don't think that's Universal. There's more to meeting and making friends then simply being yourself. There's taking risks and putting yourself out there. There is making time and priority for them. Maybe this works for someone who is naturally an extrovert and naturally makes friends, but that isn't everyone. Not everyone can or should try to take a wait for them to come to me approach
- kelnos 4y ago> don't make having close friends part of your main goal Why not? If that's what you want, then, by definition, that is your goal. Sure, you might be falling prey to the XY problem, where your actual problem is that you're feeling emotionally unfulfilled, but erroneously believe that having close friendships (when you currently have few or none) will help solve that problem. But... I kinda think that's likely to be a pretty good solution.