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Thanks for this. These are all real problems. But why is the solution that I change my behaviour? This is exactly what I'm tired of: Because other people are a

Thanks for this. These are all real problems. But why is the solution that I change my behaviour? This is exactly what I'm tired of: Because other people are assholes with big frail egos who do not understand their place in the world... I have to change? No, they have to change. Putting this on me just glosses over and prolongs the real problem: That a lot of people with frail big egos need to realize they are not all that and come down to earth.

notac 4y ago
honestly from reading how you write about yourself, I would immediately drop you into the "thinks more highly of themselves than they ought". Bucket. People who call themselves high performing rarely are in my experience. It's the humble people who learn and grow for the joy of it who truly shine.
- bjornsing 4y ago
  Being proud of your abilities and accomplishments is not mutually exclusive with curiosity and joy of learning. More generally: Your perceived correlations are not necessarily causal relationships.