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Interesting. I’ve never heard anyone say anything like that, let alone agree it. That said, it’s unclear why either view would be seen as ‘selfish’.
by snoot 4y ago
Interesting. I’ve never heard anyone say anything like that, let alone agree it.
That said, it’s unclear why either view would be seen as ‘selfish’.
- worthless-trash 4y agoSelfish: lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. It could be construed that you waste your possible partners time along the way, till you find the imperfection that ends your relationship.
- snoot 4y agoConstruing it that way is just flawed logic. It presupposes that a person goes into a relationship looking for such an imperfection. This is the fallacy of affirming the consequent.
- worthless-trash 4y agoNo, you have flawed logic ;) you're expecting logic from people.. ? If you into a relationship expecting perfection, you will always be sadly mistaken as people are imperfect. Entering the relationship contract this way is "bad faith" but not unheard of. I'm glad that you've never had to deal with it, but in reality it happens.