Healthy relationships have a tendency to grow more slowly. A person with secure attachment tends not to instantaneously fall completely for a stranger and then

Healthy relationships have a tendency to grow more slowly. A person with secure attachment tends not to instantaneously fall completely for a stranger and then immediately start treating them like the stranger is the love of their life. That’s a love bomb. It’s the way a young teenager expresses love for their crush. On the other side of the coin, if you met a new person and they immediately started talking about how they were completely in love with you and showering you with attention and affection that didn’t have any real backing in a developed relationship, it might make you uncomfortable. Unless you are feeling very insecure, in which case this behavior might seem like a gift from the gods. Over-all it’s the lack of boundaries or long-term plan to follow through that differentiates honeymoon phase from love bombing. The narcissistic person just wants the attention, even if only for a couple of weeks. It can leave the other person feeling used.