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> bla bla ... it’s a defense mechanism ... bla bla It's the same pseudo-scientific garbage that explains how bullies are vulnerable and that's why they bully.

> bla bla ... it’s a defense mechanism ... bla bla It's the same pseudo-scientific garbage that explains how bullies are vulnerable and that's why they bully. No, you idiots, bullies, narcissists, and other pricks do what they do because it gives them advantage in life. Period. They choose their wealth, health and life over the wealth, health and life of other people.

quacked 4y ago
This is sort of like saying that basketball players work out and practice so they can win. Yes, of course, but why do they want to win so badly? https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/04/the_abusive_boyfriend.html https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/04/the_abusive_boyfrien... https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/02/the_other_ego_epidemic.html https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/02/the_other_ego_epidem...
- stuckinhell 4y ago
  This is a very fascinating blog
  - quacked 4y ago
    Have you come across it before? I found it in 2019 and my life completely changed as a result.
    - stuckinhell 4y ago
      Nope, do you know what happened to the author ?
      - quacked 4y ago
        Yeah, he was doxxed a few too many times and quit writing under the Alone/Last Psychiatrist pseudonym. He recently published two books "Penelope's Dream" and "Sadly, Porn" under the name Edward Teach, and he may have continued writing under another false name, but if he did none of his regular fans know about it.
greatpostman 4y ago
Yeah I think this is it. Bullying other people commonly makes some women more attracted to you. It works in a lot of social settings
ajkjk 4y ago
Strongly disagree (and of course disagree with calling anyone who disagrees with you an idiot..). Everyone I've met who was toxic in my adult life seemed to me to have their toxicity coming from something more complex than that. Narcissists seems to be people who are desperately trying to assert something about themselves and constitutionally incapable of self-awareness. Bullies seem to be threatened by how someone else acts according to different values than them, and their weak emotional reaction to it is to try to change it, or punish the person who doesn't see the world they do, because their existence threatens the bully's tenuous validity. It's convenient to say that people are just doing it for advantage but it doesn't hold up to scrutiny if you talk to these people. It also doesn't match their actual behavior at all, since they rarely gain any actual advantage (in wealth, health, or life, for instance). If anything it's usually totally obvious to people around them and alienates them from "healthy" people.
npteljes 4y ago
Why not both? They are vulnerable people, feeling some feelings to a degree, and then doing things that seem beneficial. Acknowledging that someone has feelings doesn't mean that they are absolved from the consequences of their actions. >They choose their wealth, health and life over the wealth, health and life of other people. Isn't that what most people do everyday?

quacked 4y ago

This is sort of like saying that basketball players work out and practice so they can win. Yes, of course, but why do they want to win so badly? https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/04/the_abusive_boyfriend.html https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/04/the_abusive_boyfrien... https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/02/the_other_ego_epidemic.html https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/02/the_other_ego_epidem...

stuckinhell 4y ago
This is a very fascinating blog
- quacked 4y ago
  Have you come across it before? I found it in 2019 and my life completely changed as a result.
  - stuckinhell 4y ago
    Nope, do you know what happened to the author ?
    - quacked 4y ago
      Yeah, he was doxxed a few too many times and quit writing under the Alone/Last Psychiatrist pseudonym. He recently published two books "Penelope's Dream" and "Sadly, Porn" under the name Edward Teach, and he may have continued writing under another false name, but if he did none of his regular fans know about it.

greatpostman 4y ago

Yeah I think this is it. Bullying other people commonly makes some women more attracted to you. It works in a lot of social settings

ajkjk 4y ago

Strongly disagree (and of course disagree with calling anyone who disagrees with you an idiot..). Everyone I've met who was toxic in my adult life seemed to me to have their toxicity coming from something more complex than that. Narcissists seems to be people who are desperately trying to assert something about themselves and constitutionally incapable of self-awareness. Bullies seem to be threatened by how someone else acts according to different values than them, and their weak emotional reaction to it is to try to change it, or punish the person who doesn't see the world they do, because their existence threatens the bully's tenuous validity. It's convenient to say that people are just doing it for advantage but it doesn't hold up to scrutiny if you talk to these people. It also doesn't match their actual behavior at all, since they rarely gain any actual advantage (in wealth, health, or life, for instance). If anything it's usually totally obvious to people around them and alienates them from "healthy" people.

npteljes 4y ago

Why not both? They are vulnerable people, feeling some feelings to a degree, and then doing things that seem beneficial. Acknowledging that someone has feelings doesn't mean that they are absolved from the consequences of their actions. >They choose their wealth, health and life over the wealth, health and life of other people. Isn't that what most people do everyday?