I think these are all good points, but they don't really apply to people categorically; but rather to some people in some situations. For example, if half of t

I think these are all good points, but they don't really apply to people categorically; but rather to some people in some situations. For example, if half of the group wants pizza, and the other half wants BBQ, a compromise might make everyone happier if they value eating together over eating their preferred meal apart.