It’s not just putting yourself out there though. It’s also figuring out what isn’t working and trying to improve it. I didn’t write the book on it or anything,

It’s not just putting yourself out there though. It’s also figuring out what isn’t working and trying to improve it. I didn’t write the book on it or anything, but I’ve gone through it in my own life and I know it’s possible. For me I lost weight, got in shape, started dressing more intentionally and then joined a couple of clubs aligned with my interests. Pretty quickly I discovered which of those groups I felt I fit better with and gravitated more there. Over time, those people became friends outside the group too. The older you get the more deliberate this process becomes I find.