I don't know that I've ever spoken again to anyone who accepted my invitation somewhere and then insisted on splitting the bill instead of letting me get it. It

I don't know that I've ever spoken again to anyone who accepted my invitation somewhere and then insisted on splitting the bill instead of letting me get it. It's a rejection of hospitality, which happens, but it's a signifier, and usually of the end of the relationship. Someone who won't break bread with you is someone you can't trust, and someone who does break bread with you and then betrays you is unworthy of your disappointment.