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> Almost every couple I know who is not having kids makes good $$. It's my friends who make less and are more working class (and work longer hours at that) are
by kitsunesoba 4y ago
> Almost every couple I know who is not having kids makes good $$. It's my friends who make less and are more working class (and work longer hours at that) are the ones having kids.
Those you see making good money, if they intend to have kids, are probably holding off until they feel they're ready (I'm in this group myself). Couples who aren't earning much might feel that someday may never come and have kids since they're going to be somewhat financially stressed either way, plus some in that group have kids as a way to add some meaning and motivation to keep on with the everyday grind.
That said, the answer to population problems clearly not to make more people impoverished, but rather to bring the bar of "ready of kids" down to a level that's accessible by more people more quickly.
- jemmyw 4y agoIf you and your partner want kids and are waiting for some arbitrary financial goal my advice would be don't wait, do it now. We had our first when I was 25 and then seeing all our peers wait until 35+ health wise you're going to cope better when you're younger. Plus you get that much longer when them in your life, and more time being able to play competitive sports with them. But kids are expensive you say? Well they can be, but only if you spend money on them, and most of that spending is school years anyway so you still have time to figure out out.