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Same here. I assume a thinking pose and look at a corner in the room - that should signal that at least my attention hasn't strayed elsewhere more significant.
by penguin_booze 4y ago
Same here. I assume a thinking pose and look at a corner in the room - that should signal that at least my attention hasn't strayed elsewhere more significant.
My another strategy is to make occasional eye contact while blurring my vision. To them, I'm making eye contact, whereas for me, it's not that different when I'm looking at the corner.
- erik_landerholm 4y agoYeah I’m really good at those hidden 3d pictures. I can split the focus of my eyes super quickly and will do that sometimes while looking at someone if I feel like I’ve not looked at their eyes for too long. On zoom if I’m really listening I’m literally turning my head to the side and possibly closing my eyes.
- cecilpl2 4y agoI can also make my eyes go parallel, and it's fun to be able to stare into both of someone's eyes at the same time :)
- bayofpigs 4y agoSame. Though I prefer a gentle nudge for confirmation that they're finished speaking.
- anigbrowl 4y ago> To them, I'm making eye contact If you think people can't tell the difference you're gravely mistaken. I also have issues with this sort of thing, but it just requires additional work on my part. Assuming your conversation partner can't read is almost invariably a mistake.