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> But he wasn't aware of the flip-side... that the manager is then responsible for judging the situation and not making direct requests that are impossible to r
by throwawaysleep 4y ago
> But he wasn't aware of the flip-side... that the manager is then responsible for judging the situation and not making direct requests that are impossible to refuse.
You assume he cares. Assuming the person across from you gives a crap about you is a regularly fatal one.
Humans are not basically good. They are basically greedy.
- MichaelCollins 4y agoMost humans are basically good. A significant minority aren't, maybe about 10%. Enough that you should never ignore the possibility the other person is a psycho, but few enough that you should never assume everybody else is a psycho. Also, psychos tend to concentrate in certain places. If you're in a board room, or hanging out with a bunch of surgeons, perhaps it's rational to assume everybody else there is a psycho.
- anigbrowl 4y agoTry 30%.
- RHSeeger 4y agoMost humans are both good (empathy is a strong thing) and greedy (wanting what's best for yourself and those are you close to is also a strong incentive). Balancing those two, sometimes opposing, desires is part of being human. It's worth noting that they're not always opposing. Sometimes empathy makes us feel better when others feel good, and the negative impact on ourselves can be more than countered by the good feeling from making others happier.
- anigbrowl 4y ago> Humans are not basically good. They are basically greedy. It's more complex than that, albeit not much. If you are in a hurry skip to figure 3. https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.1600451 https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.1600451