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> So don’t do those things its not nice Advice like this makes the situation worse, because nice people will take your advice and not approach extremely attrac
by gitfan86 4y ago
> So don’t do those things its not nice
Advice like this makes the situation worse, because nice people will take your advice and not approach extremely attractive women, because they understand it is the nice thing to do, but assholes will approach extremely attractive women, because they don't care about being nice. So these women end up only being approached by bad actors.
- paulsutter 4y agoStep 1 is to really understand the persons you’re trying to meet. For starters, to avoid being the worst annoyance. Advanced mode is to be who they want to meet. Starts with knowledge like anything else we learn. Everyone wants to be understood and appreciated, nobody likes to be a target
- qazxcvbnmlp 4y agoI think there is a nuance to tell that nice people. If you approach someone, be honest with your intentions while also caring for them. What does that mean? Both attractive and un-attractive women like to date people and get attention. So it’s okay to approach an attractive women. However, when you do it, be honest with yourself that the reason you want to be around her is whatever (a good relationship) and then if she says no, just leave it at that. Approaching? Ok. Approaching to be a friend? Ok. Approaching to be a friend because you want to have sexy time later? Not ok, this isn’t honest. Not honest = not ok = being a jerk. Approaching because you share an interest in Venus fly trap plants and you want to talk about it? Perfect. She says she doesn’t want to talk? That’s ok. Leave it at that.
- tester756 4y ago>Approaching to be a friend >Approaching to be a friend because you want to have sexy time later Some would argue that first almost always implies second
- hnthrway 4y agoJust approach someone in your attractiveness band