You might choose to ignore how what you're about to say will make someone feel, because in your mind you know you don't mean ill, but that won't change the outc

You might choose to ignore how what you're about to say will make someone feel, because in your mind you know you don't mean ill, but that won't change the outcome. Ignoring how you're about to make someone feel is still consequential. In other words, you can be right and still an asshole.