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From the point of view of a woman those 1-3 days of chatting make perfect sense, that way she can try to write off the creeps and the potential dangers. Not sur

From the point of view of a woman those 1-3 days of chatting make perfect sense, that way she can try to write off the creeps and the potential dangers. Not sure how it all goes on apps like Grindr, to be honest.

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- alphabettsy 4y ago
  This whole things reads like slightly deranged red-pill nonsense, but this part > One of the major flaws in this common female thinking, is that by initially frustrating the guy, it will make them "prove" themselves to her. Some women even take it to extremes, to weeks and months. However, this abusive behavior towards guys can become a filter, which leads to her encountering guys that simply want to "climb the mountain" for revenge. After getting sex or the relationship, its all the more sweet for them to break that woman's heart (who they may have designated a game player) by suddenly going ghost on her or treating her badly after they have "accomplished the mission". Is just gross.
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        dang 4y ago
        You can't break the site guidelines like this, regardless of how wrong someone else is or you feel they are. We ban accounts that do. If you'd please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to the rules when posting here, we'd appreciate it.
- bongoman37 4y ago
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This is a fallacy that there can be a "win" or any guaranteed outcome by doing such things. 1) The so-called "dangerous ones", can be those that will play games, because they may have designated a target or are abnormally obsessed due to bad psychological issues. Normal people, even more so for those of higher status, are likely not to have the patience to put up with detected nonsense or silliness. 2) Some are experts at online dating and playing along with such games, while others are not. The filter that is created, are those that will say or type what the other wants to hear. So instead of a genuine interaction, it's lots of con games. 3) Stringing people along does not nor has ever proven to lead to successful long term relationships. One of the major flaws in such thinking, is that by initially frustrating others, it will make them "prove" themselves. Some even taking it to extremes, to weeks and months. However, this abusive behavior can become a filter, which leads to encountering those that will simply want to "climb the mountain" for revenge. After obtaining the relationship, its all the more sweet for them to break that person's heart (who initiated the game playing) by suddenly going ghost or bad treatment after having "accomplished the mission". Overall, better to treat people as you wish to be treated and to be genuine in the interaction. Playing games, often leads to encountering those that like playing games too or possibly worse.

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alphabettsy 4y ago
This whole things reads like slightly deranged red-pill nonsense, but this part > One of the major flaws in this common female thinking, is that by initially frustrating the guy, it will make them "prove" themselves to her. Some women even take it to extremes, to weeks and months. However, this abusive behavior towards guys can become a filter, which leads to her encountering guys that simply want to "climb the mountain" for revenge. After getting sex or the relationship, its all the more sweet for them to break that woman's heart (who they may have designated a game player) by suddenly going ghost on her or treating her badly after they have "accomplished the mission". Is just gross.
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      - dang 4y ago
        You can't break the site guidelines like this, regardless of how wrong someone else is or you feel they are. We ban accounts that do. If you'd please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to the rules when posting here, we'd appreciate it.
bongoman37 4y ago

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This is a fallacy that there can be a "win" or any guaranteed outcome by doing such things. 1) The so-called "dangerous ones", can be those that will play games, because they may have designated a target or are abnormally obsessed due to bad psychological issues. Normal people, even more so for those of higher status, are likely not to have the patience to put up with detected nonsense or silliness. 2) Some are experts at online dating and playing along with such games, while others are not. The filter that is created, are those that will say or type what the other wants to hear. So instead of a genuine interaction, it's lots of con games. 3) Stringing people along does not nor has ever proven to lead to successful long term relationships. One of the major flaws in such thinking, is that by initially frustrating others, it will make them "prove" themselves. Some even taking it to extremes, to weeks and months. However, this abusive behavior can become a filter, which leads to encountering those that will simply want to "climb the mountain" for revenge. After obtaining the relationship, its all the more sweet for them to break that person's heart (who initiated the game playing) by suddenly going ghost or bad treatment after having "accomplished the mission". Overall, better to treat people as you wish to be treated and to be genuine in the interaction. Playing games, often leads to encountering those that like playing games too or possibly worse.